Hand job variations part. 1 – One handed

One of the most comfortable way to engage intensively with his “best friend” is hand job and it’s good to be a little different variants. Today we present you some different hand job sex variations that will get him to go crazy. We start with a couple variations that can be made one handed. A little tip before we start: Use plenty of lube so it will be much more comfortable! : D These techniques are described when the man is but you can also indulge him while he was standing or sitting.

Onefinger hand job
Stir your finger in a circular motion over his glans, then slide under the prepuce or foreskin play with the band.

Take the glans between thumb and forefinger and stimulate the glans and shaft of the penis, I can describe it as if you open a screw cap and then closes it again. If you also moving his fingers up and down then the ecstasy is not far away.

This technique is perfect to begin with. Squeeze on the glans with your fingers and gently turn back and forth, as if you would like to open a very slippery door handles.

The plate
Press with a flat hand his penis shaft against his stomach. Since slides you again and again with the flat hand over the penis and press lightly (if it should look especially sexy out so take both hands and do the actions with the entire upper body.)

Shape the thumb and forefinger so that it becomes an OK sign” and put the ring over the glans. Stir fingers up and down (with a little pressure!) And after a while you can make a slight twisting motion.

Fakiehand job
No, Fakie has nothing to do with pretending, but it does backwards. Hand formed into fist and turn your hand so that your thumb pointing down and move the penis up and down.
This hand posture feels even more realistic because the fist narrowest point comes first and that one can regulate penile massage lightly.

Pull the lever
A combination of a classical hand job thumbs up and a Fakie hand job. This means that you will vary between letting his fist to have the thumb upwards and downwards and slip over the penis.

In hand job variants Part 2 we will present the Two handed penis massage techniques.

Orgasm problems: masturbation is a must for Girls

Symbolfoto - orgasmproblem: onani är ett måste för tjejerI think it’s very sad to read online about how many girls have orgasm problems. Although not all girls dare admit it, so it is obvious that there are very many who suffer from it.
Some come only when they masturbate, others will very rarely during sex because they can not really relax or that they simply can not tell what they like and then there are those who never have an orgasm. But it still seems to be a lot of girls who do not speak openly about the problem because they are afraid that the partner will think they are “abnormal”.

However, I can reassure all of you girls have such thoughts: you are totally normal! But I certainly do not think this is acceptable and this is now a few tips on how you might solve the problem. For if all the girls fake an orgasm, to seem good in bed, how should we ever be able to change anything? Rule number one is: talk openly and honestly with your partner, without hurting him.

The second and often very underrated point is masturbation: many girls (up to 30%) never masturbate because they do not know how to go about it, or because they feel guilty of it. Do they even have an orgasm problems during intercourse so inhibited sexuality and frustration grows. But girls, were honest now, how will you explain to your partner how you want it if you do not know it themselves? A & O then, is to practice, practice, practice! 😀

Stand in front of the mirror or snuggle under the covers, use your hand or maybe a sex toy: take you plenty of time to explore the erogenous zones. My tip: those who think that nature vibrator penis shape is “too much”, you can try another little inclination sensor. You really do not have any inhibitions   make you happy, harmonious, and is also good for health. 😉

Know your partner is not what you like, so try to talk to him as openly as possible. You really do not need to be afraid of making a fool of you, most men want nothing more than to make the partner happy.

If you do not dare to take this up with a partner, so you can take the soft, indirect way: for his hand where you want to be concerned and let him now caress you. When he makes the proper motions so show that you like it and that he should continue. Then you can tell him that you thought about what he did. In this way, he certainly motivated to strive even more next time. 😉 And girls: there’s no shame if you only come when you darling petting or lick you. Only half of all girls can regularly get a vaginal orgasm.

Often one thinks far too many unnecessary thoughts during intercourse, these makes you distracted and you can not relax, often quite unconsciously: if there are problems zones darling not to see or if you think the guys would think that they female genitals are ugly: all these thoughts do not belong in bed! To put it bluntly: guys think about your genitals and there is nothing to tease them as much as they can see and touch everything – and that’s for sure! And when it comes trouble zones: guys actually looks are not everything we do, and they do it so disturbs them, they love us as we are – with all our feminine curves! 😀

So again a little summary:
The tips do not work directly. So put no pressure on you, but you take enough time. Moreover, it is almost a must for girls to masturbate, so they can find out what they like. You must talk openly with your partner and maybe even caress yourself during intercourse to achieve orgasm with darling.
Good luck and have it now so good! :-)

Sexy lingerie for guys?

Sexiga underkläder för killar - gilla eller dissa?Sexy lingerie for guys like or diss?

When the girls present themselves in sexy lingerie, then pulled the boys’ imagination running properly. But on the contrary, what is it then? Do girls when men show up in sexy underwear etc? And really want men wearing more daring underwear?

We now seem to go away from fine cotton and more and more guys starting to wear a bit rarer underwear. And then backs not even return for materials such as lace. And that’s ok! Just like a pink shirt, even a pair of pants lace emphasize the masculinity of the person who wears them. Eye catching is what happens when man dares to wear underwear with transparent inserts – they show the naked skin.

Or do you like when it’s classic and simple? Therefore, I have the following question to you: What do you think of sexy lingerie for men, for example. with lace, transparent or translucent underwear?……

Does girls have a penis envy?

It comes from Sigmund Freud the concept penis envy! According to Freud experiencing a woman penis envy over the stage in her psycho sexual development when she discovers that she’s missing a limb: a penis. Of his theses so this is the most famous, but also one of his most controversial theses.

Well, I’ve thought about it a little
Since I can remember is that the penis. As a child thinks, well maybe not too much on it. But as you get older, you will notice that the penis more and more. For example, when you sat in the paddling pool with a neighbor boy. The mothers sat a few feet away and thought we were soooo cute when we splashed around and began to make plans for the future for the two of us.
But I was then incredibly jealous because I had a clitoris and the boy a penis? I was disappointed that I did not also had such a thing between my legs? Well, I actually do not mind it but can not imagine it! Something, however, I remember is that I was standing with his pants down in front of a wall and wanted to mark my territory with a high arch but it did not at all! : -o
At that time my today‘s most eye-catching genital, breast, yet hidden. My genitals, vagina & co. I had not the faintest idea how these would be used – unlike today! ;-) Yes, of course we asked ourselves what this would be good for why boys have a penis, and we do this? But we were then envious of the guys? We felt so much more inferior, that we had to suffer from penis envy whole life? Oh, girls and boys differ. But no: girls, now you have everything got everything for a bit! But still there was a time when I envied my brother. He was younger than me and had to do more stuff. Much more. He was out with his friends, he needed first to get home early in the morning. My time was limited to midnight and not a second longer! And why? Since I did not have a penis, without a vagina. How many of you had that? And what happened? Well, it was well that you do not always told the truth. Lie researcher Peter Stiegnitz made the year 2000 a study and what came up was that women make their own lives easier through lies and men do things possible through lies. Although now some of you are thinking of the woman‘s lie, the fake orgasm“, so I ask myself: who is it now is to blame ?! The penis ?! Fixed by the way, guys do it too: how best guys faking an orgasm. Hmm, we let it be so, and we can say that in this way the loop is closed.
But we have not yet sorted out the problems with jealousy. There are certainly people who do not feel comfortable in their own skin and with their own genitals, but this is a more sensitive and much more complex issue than the pure jealousy on the penis.
Have I ever compared the length of my clitoris with others? Non! Have any of you ever seen a girl who lost in thought playing with her genitals? Non! But take now the guys at the gas station, in the pub or where it now stands some people, they can see how they are absorbed in thoughts take the shortest route from his trouser pocket to “the best friend” and how they are sooo excited by what they found. With us girls would not work at all, trouser pocket must then sit some more downhill. As always with us girls, we are more profound in all that we do. Whose fault is it? 😉
What really interests us girls, is how guys think it is to penetrate us. We know just how it feels to take Emor you! What is it? What sends penis signals to the brain? Mmmmhhh, this feels good, quite openly here, everything slides. Or is it what the heck? The main thing is to get in? This, I would like to know, but not for me for decades has had a trauma because I do not have a penis. No, simply to know how it feels to penetrate to leave little trace. For it makes you, guys always leaves traces behind, more tracks than we girls. In extreme caseswe leave a wet trickle, nothing else! You leave much, much more! And it is true that women have a feeling that this is precisely what makes you happy and that makes you think that everyone wants such a “thing”. I only say: forget it!

Are we jealous of your penis? From me there an obvious NO! Except for one thing: you do not have these mile-long toilet lines! 😉

Playboy gives orgasm tips for women

Symbolfoto - orgasmtips till kvinnanPlayboy magazine in its latest issue, giving readers ten tips to a female orgasm guarantee. This was of course I had to read

It is not just the male penis that can give a woman an orgasm. This is the writer Birgit Querengässers opinion and certainly she is right! When the clitoris massaged, then she ecstasy
– For example, in a mission status. She adds as a pillow under her ass so she gets more stimulation on her clit. Although Woman on top is recommended to get comfortable stimulation on the clitoris, then she can rub it against his pubic bone. At a doggystyle so he can stimulate her clit with his fingers while bumping rhythmically. These three sexual positions and techniques, however, was just the first tip.
On site two, we have a sexual technique which is controlled via a smartphone app. Well, that’s ok, but to sit face to face with a bottle of wine is perhaps slightly better ?!
We come to sex tips number three and now it’s about fingers again – that at the right time inserting her fingers in her ass will be an additional orgasm guarantee. However, you should have talked through this before! So do not get surprised. : -o
Number four is foreplay before foreplay so that you get the right mood. For example, with a shared bath or heating can see on an erotic movie for couples
Are you good with your tongue and you’ll see where it leads … this is sex tips number five.
Number six may first sound a bit dull to 15 minutes to caress the clitoris but something else fumbling. But I say that it is something that you really should try it!
The next tip is probably not for me the girl must stay back! Just before orgasm to be the man to stop encouraging her to increase her horniness. In this way it will be easier to have an orgasm and it will also become more intense. Well, what do you say? One can perhaps try, but it’s not something you need! 😉
– Place Number eight: one should give her a second chance. Of course, what else? But immediately after an orgasm then you should not touch the girl’s direct loss of points, you can they’d rather devote themselves to the other erogenous zones such. As nipples, neck and inner thighs. Then she is still on the sixmood and it will surely be a second round
Tip nine is a tip that I think is very good. It’s about he looks at when she masturbates and then take her hard and solid.
Playboys tenth and final tip is the combination of the finger, tongue and stimulation … It’s Womanizern”!

Six-New Year’s resolutions for 2014

Sex-nyårslöften för 2014The year is coming to an end – it’s the perfect time of day for an erotic flashback. The German infidelity site First Affair has conducted a survey among its members and it shows three erotic trends in 2013 these are now real or rather fantasies we do not know but we have taken a look at the survey results and has developed three six New Year’s resolutions that might sounds simple, but has a large effect and that will make 2014 an incredibly erotic and sexy year.

SixNew Year’s resolutions for 2014

At the top of the wish list is apparently a threesome guys dream about two sex bombs in bed and girls dream of becoming spoiled by two hot guys together. And why not to be at the center is always flattering, and it‘s a triple desire. 😉 Our first New Year’s resolution reads thus: Daring to something new. Here you will find a little erotic love tips for couples.

2013 has obviously been a year we like to have played 81% of the surveyed girls and 70% of respondents guys said they love to use sex toys in bed. In addition to the “normal” sex toys as it has now for this trend developed special sex toys for couples. For example: “G-Spoon“, “Intimate Spreader Vibrating” or “We-Vibes”. The relationship becomes more stable and you get a new kick in the bedroom. Our second sixNew Year’s resolution reads thus: Try some sex toys for couples.

Site members on First Affair dream most about living out the secret, erotic fantasies and that’s pretty normal on a cheating site. For it is that so many couples do not talk enough with each other, neither of trouble or when dealing with sexual desires or fantasies. And the intense conversations that are so important to strengthen the relationship and to get a good life together. Our third sixNew Year’s resolution is: Tell us about and live out your fantasies.

This list is just the beginning for 2014, and one can write where both the one and the other. But one thing is certain: When it comes to erotic New Year’s resolutions, then it should of course be no problem to keep them😉

We wish you a Happy and erotic new year!

Autumn is the best time for sex!

As sexy can be autumn
It was not long ago we sat on the beach and licked the ice cream and now you are going to dig up the thick cover jackets out of the closet.

Summer is well basically out and out it just gets colder and colder. Autumndepression? Not then! Even if the temperatures drops, it’s still hot in the imagination and in the bedrooms. Fall is actually the best time for sex!

This good news, we can thank the German and American scientists. They came up to the fact that sex hormones reaches peak values ​​in autumn. The high testosterone levels in men mourn for more desire for sex and makes the men have a longer endurance. In the girls produced more estrogen in the fall, thus increasing women’s sexual desires. This is the one (s) explosive mixture that can make autumn the best time of the year!

Now you do thus not provide because of the days just get shorter and shorter, but look forward to the nights are getting longer! 😉

Now it is the best season to pep up your sex life so there really carefully and try something new. Surprise your partner with one or two or three of our hot products. Perfect to celebrate the good news! 😀

10 interesting facts about masturbation

Symbolfoto - 10 intressanta fakta om onani10 interesting facts about masturbation
That masturbation does not make you blind should probably be clear to all. On the contrary masturbation should, according to many doctors, be in every medicine cabinet. But even beyond that, there are a lot of surprising, fun and useful facts about the subject of “self-love” that we naturally want to share with us. We have put together a few points that will give you pleasure for a real masturbation-Olympics. Now, if you  pulling a Tarzan shaking rooster or polish the pearl you are not alone.

Masturbation is the first wellness for body and soul. Put your intimate region of a short-term stress and afterwards you can enjoy the short and long term benefits of this climax: stress reduction, strengthening the pelvic floor muscles, release of feelings of happiness and enhanced coronary artery.

Second, did you know that in the month of May celebrates the international masturbation month in the United States? Well, Americans who considered so adorn ?! Since 1995, rubbed, pulled and rubbed it so it is lovely to this honor Joycelyn Elders, a military doctor who was fired by then-President Bill Clinton that she had spoken publicly about masturbation. Hmm, and there shall be freedom of speech?

3 But it may be too much of a good thing? Aside from the fact that it might someday become a ‘wear and tear of the material “, so it can never be too much self-love. As long as you manage to get you to work on time, then there is no reason why the ora. This confirmed until the American Psychiatric Association.

4 And we also have a good news for all the girls who suffer from menstrual cramps: discard painkillers, masturbation is the most effective and natural means to resolve with cramps. Once a month, then masturbation is not only beautiful, but also painkillers. Well, if pharmaceutical groups knew about this …

5 But for all the enthusiasm it might be interesting to take us back to masturbation dark history. In 1716 it circulated a booklet in London who undertook details. This booklet was listed as all horrifying consequences up including that it got hairy hands. The booklet was translated into various languages ​​and 60 editions saw that many hands were on the quilt a long time. And even worse: In Connecticut masturbation punished by death in the 1600s.

6 A good news for all those who still feel guilty when they indulge themselves: almost everyone does it. A survey from 2010 shows that 94% of men and 85% of women are happy to spend time with themselves. The other 21% are probably those who complain about the baby cry or tease up at all because of trifles. … or you‘re lying simply. 😉

7 And now it gets really interesting: people who have sex regularly, masturbate more often than people without a lively sex life. Even their marriages last longer and are happier. When you read something like that so you sacrifice willingly for a good cause!

8 Although the first people obviously knew what it was about, a clay figure from a temple in Malta shows a person in a clearmasturbation stance and this was 4000 years before Christ! What does that tell us? People could thus far freely rub and rub before they began to destroy us.

9 Promasturbation-argument, there is a whole lot and you can not get enough of them. Here is part 2 with the health argument: masturbation reduces the risk of diabetes, prostate cancer, depression, sleep disturbances and cervical infections. Good, right? The time you spend at the doctor one can rather spend at home in bed.

10 He who believes that masturbation is an invention of man has never been in the zoo’s monkey house. But it is not just the monkeys who like to fiddle with themselves, even deer, squirrels and walruses know how to make it good for himself. Scientists have even observed that female monkeys using sticks in a very creative, erotic way humans have needed decades to invent dildo.

But let’s be honest now: we really do well no reason to do it and to enjoy ourselves. And we all know that everybody wants that something must be done right, so you simply do it yourself! 😉

Should we not do it without a condom?

Should we do it without rubber? No!

So it should be clear answer to the question that is often accompanied by many good reason” but that does not at all reduce the risk of becoming infected with sexually transmitted diseases. To fuck without a condom is and remains a major risk that could have bitter consequences. The worst excuses I have here summed up in a top 5 list:

First I’m allergic to condoms!
Aha, against all ?! No, no dear guys. We may think about the occasional suffer from a latex allergy, but not all. And even if all of a sudden would develop such an allergy, there are always alternatives. In our condom assortment for example there are an additional section with only non-latex condoms. This first poor excuse can you then this instant stop.

Second, it feels better without a condom!
Nonsense! There is also evidence to the contrary. Researchers say that girls can relax better because they do not need to worry – neither for an unwanted pregnancy or to become infected with various of diseases. This should have helped one and another woman to have an orgasm, an orgasm that she might not be received by an unprotected intercourse. Another distinct advantage is the condom humidity that makes penetration easier. Condoms with nubs and grooves also give the girl a further stimulation at the protected intercourse.
And the guys then? :) Yes, although they have sexual benefits of condoms! Quite often helps the condom when it comes to pulling out on the orgasm and prevent premature ejaculation. There are even endurance condoms, with integrate cock ring.
They’re always so dry“. Nope! There are condoms with extra lubricant layer. They are so thick that you do not know anything!” We believe this also no on, there are sensitive condoms for extra sensation.

3 I have no STDs!
Yes, now it is not so everyone walks around with a sexual health certificate. The problem is that many men and even women assume that everything is ok “down therebecause it looks so. But many diseases of the genital area you can not see from the outside and they also have no significant symptoms. A chlamydia infection, for example, one can have undetected in the body for a long time and it can do that it is hard to conceive later.

4th I‘m so horny that I can not wait anymore!
Well, an erect penis is quite clearly one of the best compliments that a woman can get. But so easy you should not be to wrap around your little finger. Obviously it’s not easy to say no to a large and stiff penis, but no matter how tempting the offer is, your erection will come back! Then the condom on and you can drive on without experiencing remorse afterward. End of discussion!

5th You do not trust me then?
Aha! A manipulation attempts! A clear sign that the man has learned from us. 😉 But he will certainly not be praised for this! To drive this emotional thing is probably almost the worst of all the bad excuses. Especially when it comes to avoiding a pregnancy.  No, thank you! For we all know that even the first few drops of semen can transform into children. The appropriate response: a condom is no negotiating and real men do not meander. So, now it’s over with silly excuses. The condom should be the most important sexaccessorize and belongs to the basic equipment in the nightstand of every responsible adult!