I think it’s very sad to read online about how many girls have orgasm problems. Although not all girls dare admit it, so it is obvious that there are very many who suffer from it.
Some come only when they masturbate, others will very rarely during sex because they can not really relax or that they simply can not tell what they like and then there are those who never have an orgasm. But it still seems to be a lot of girls who do not speak openly about the problem because they are afraid that the partner will think they are “abnormal”.
However, I can reassure all of you girls have such thoughts: you are totally normal! But I certainly do not think this is acceptable and this is now a few tips on how you might solve the problem. For if all the girls fake an orgasm, to seem good in bed, how should we ever be able to change anything? Rule number one is: talk openly and honestly with your partner, without hurting him.
The second and often very underrated point is masturbation: many girls (up to 30%) never masturbate because they do not know how to go about it, or because they feel guilty of it. Do they even have an orgasm problems during intercourse so inhibited sexuality and frustration grows. But girls, were honest now, how will you explain to your partner how you want it if you do not know it themselves? A & O then, is to practice, practice, practice! 😀
Stand in front of the mirror or snuggle under the covers, use your hand or maybe a sex toy: take you plenty of time to explore the erogenous zones. My tip: those who think that nature vibrator penis shape is “too much”, you can try another little inclination sensor. You really do not have any inhibitions – make you happy, harmonious, and is also good for health. 😉
Know your partner is not what you like, so try to talk to him as openly as possible. You really do not need to be afraid of making a fool of you, most men want nothing more than to make the partner happy.
If you do not dare to take this up with a partner, so you can take the soft, indirect way: for his hand where you want to be concerned and let him now caress you. When he makes the proper motions so show that you like it and that he should continue. Then you can tell him that you thought about what he did. In this way, he certainly motivated to strive even more next time. 😉 And girls: there’s no shame if you only come when you darling petting or lick you. Only half of all girls can regularly get a vaginal orgasm.
Often one thinks far too many unnecessary thoughts during intercourse, these makes you distracted and you can not relax, often quite unconsciously: if there are problems zones darling not to see or if you think the guys would think that they female genitals are ugly: all these thoughts do not belong in bed! To put it bluntly: guys think about your genitals and there is nothing to tease them as much as they can see and touch everything – and that’s for sure! And when it comes trouble zones: guys actually looks are not everything we do, and they do it so disturbs them, they love us as we are – with all our feminine curves! 😀
So again a little summary:
The tips do not work directly. So put no pressure on you, but you take enough time. Moreover, it is almost a must for girls to masturbate, so they can find out what they like. You must talk openly with your partner and maybe even caress yourself during intercourse to achieve orgasm with darling.
Good luck and have it now so good! :-)