It comes from Sigmund Freud – the concept penis envy! According to Freud experiencing a woman penis envy over the stage in her psycho sexual development when she discovers that she’s missing a limb: a penis. Of his theses so this is the most famous, but also one of his most controversial theses.
Well, I’ve thought about it a little …
Since I can remember is that – the penis. As a child thinks, well maybe not too much on it. But as you get older, you will notice that the penis more and more. For example, when you sat in the paddling pool with a neighbor boy. The mothers sat a few feet away and thought we were soooo cute when we splashed around and began to make plans for the future for the two of us.
But I was then incredibly jealous because I had a clitoris and the boy a penis? I was disappointed that I did not also had such a thing between my legs? Well, I actually do not mind it but can not imagine it! Something, however, I remember is that I was standing with his pants down in front of a wall and wanted to mark my territory with a high arch … but it did not at all! : -o
At that time my today‘s most eye-catching genital, breast, yet hidden. My genitals, vagina & co. I had not the faintest idea how these would be used – unlike today! ;-) Yes, of course we asked ourselves what this would be good for why boys have a penis, and we do this? But we were then envious of the guys? We felt so much more inferior, that we had to suffer from penis envy whole life? Oh, girls and boys differ. But no: girls, now you have everything got everything for a bit! But still there was a time when I envied my brother. He was younger than me and had to do more stuff. Much more. He was out with his friends, he needed first to get home early in the morning. My time was limited to midnight and not a second longer! And why? Since I did not have a penis, without a vagina. How many of you had that? And what happened? Well, it was well that you do not always told the truth. Lie researcher Peter Stiegnitz made the year 2000 a study and what came up was that women make their own lives easier through lies and men do things possible through lies. Although now some of you are thinking of the woman‘s lie, “the fake orgasm“, so I ask myself: who is it now is to blame ?! The penis ?! Fixed by the way, guys do it too: how best guys faking an orgasm. Hmm, we let it be so, and we can say that in this way the loop is closed.
But we have not yet sorted out the problems with jealousy. There are certainly people who do not feel comfortable in their own skin and with their own genitals, but this is a more sensitive and much more complex issue than the pure jealousy on the penis.
Have I ever compared the length of my clitoris with others? Non! Have any of you ever seen a girl who lost in thought playing with her genitals? Non! But take now the guys at the gas station, in the pub or where it now stands some people, they can see how they are absorbed in thoughts take the shortest route from his trouser pocket to “the best friend” and how they are sooo excited by what they found. With us girls would not work at all, trouser pocket must then sit some more downhill. As always with us girls, we are more profound in all that we do. Whose fault is it? 😉
What really interests us girls, is how guys think it is to penetrate us. We know just how it feels to take Emor you! What is it? What sends penis signals to the brain? Mmmmhhh, this feels good, quite openly here, everything slides. Or is it what the heck? The main thing is to get in? This, I would like to know, but not for me for decades has had a trauma because I do not have a penis. No, simply to know how it feels to penetrate to leave little trace. For it makes you, guys always leaves traces behind, more tracks than we girls. In “extreme cases” we leave a wet trickle, nothing else! You leave much, much more! And it is true that women have a feeling that this is precisely what makes you happy and that makes you think that everyone wants such a “thing”. I only say: forget it!
Are we jealous of your penis? From me there an obvious NO! Except for one thing: you do not have these mile-long toilet lines! 😉