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How does one actually good in bed?

16_bra-i-sängen-1160x655-1160x6551. For most women, it is an incredibly erotic feeling to feel coveted and desirable. This often underestimated. For it is unfortunately the case that many women consciously and unconsciously struggling with problem areas, and more. This makes it not easy. If a man comes and takes her as she is, thus sweeping away all doubt she can really let it all and enjoy. Then she is also ready to give himself. And it can also mean an extra kick that he simply takes what he wants.


A question with many answers

It is actually a question that employ us. But not so much if we have good sex. When we accept it. Only when the sex is not as good or suddenly got worse as we begin to brood. Why it does not work anymore and what is it made? And then it could also be that the sex with the same partner is unbelievably good today and tomorrow is completely worthless. Or it was good before, and then it got worse and worse. Sometimes sex is better when we know each other a long time. And one and another one night stand becomes supernova that can finally let go of all inhibitions. And now we ask ourselves, what really “good in bed”? The answers to this question are very different. These I got in my little survey:

“When I get an orgasm.”
“Anatomical basic knowledge should be.”
“That you know what the other wants, and that you do not have to say anything or ask.”
“Before you become good in bed you should master the basic techniques.”
“Good sex is always dependent on the love and feelings for each other. Sex without emotion can not be any good sex. ”
“I get very excited about, I think he smells good.”
Become coveted and release all

A recipe for great sex is not the case. For this, the views too different. My experience is that it is primarily the two components that make you great lover and that drives you into a spiral of lust.

1. For most women, it is an incredibly erotic feeling to feel coveted and desirable. This often underestimated. For it is unfortunately the case that many women consciously and unconsciously struggling with problem areas, and more. This makes it not easy. If a man comes and takes her as she is, thus sweeping away all doubt she can really let it all and enjoy. Then she is also ready to give himself. And it can also mean an extra kick that he simply takes what he wants.

2. Most men get very excited when they notice that the partner unleashes and enjoying sex. For them it’s almost an aphrodisiac when the partner is not there as a board in bed and just let things happen, but also actively with. Then she was happy to take “the reins in his hand” and “reckless” to take what she wants. He is more than happy with this!

So difficult, it is not. And this positive but still vicious circle works even for short adventures. On the other hand, loses couples in long relationships this åtråhet and then the sex of duty. Especially women lose the desire quickly. Both the man and the woman wants to listen to them and are interested in what they want in bed. A technical perfection is all very well, but just not enough. It strikes no sparks if the woman did not mean it, or when the man only feels tolerated. But on the other hand, you can feel so coveted as possible. When the others did not know what buttons he or she should push, pull, tickle, lick or suck on so it is not enough åtråhet. We need to get a good mix of anatomical knowledge, to master the different sexual techniques, a good feel for the needs of others and a willingness to talk about desires and fantasies. We need the will and the ability to unleash. Then we’re good in bed!

Orgasm problems: masturbation is a must for Girls

Symbolfoto - orgasmproblem: onani är ett måste för tjejerI think it’s very sad to read online about how many girls have orgasm problems. Although not all girls dare admit it, so it is obvious that there are very many who suffer from it.
Some come only when they masturbate, others will very rarely during sex because they can not really relax or that they simply can not tell what they like and then there are those who never have an orgasm. But it still seems to be a lot of girls who do not speak openly about the problem because they are afraid that the partner will think they are “abnormal”.

However, I can reassure all of you girls have such thoughts: you are totally normal! But I certainly do not think this is acceptable and this is now a few tips on how you might solve the problem. For if all the girls fake an orgasm, to seem good in bed, how should we ever be able to change anything? Rule number one is: talk openly and honestly with your partner, without hurting him.

The second and often very underrated point is masturbation: many girls (up to 30%) never masturbate because they do not know how to go about it, or because they feel guilty of it. Do they even have an orgasm problems during intercourse so inhibited sexuality and frustration grows. But girls, were honest now, how will you explain to your partner how you want it if you do not know it themselves? A & O then, is to practice, practice, practice! 😀

Stand in front of the mirror or snuggle under the covers, use your hand or maybe a sex toy: take you plenty of time to explore the erogenous zones. My tip: those who think that nature vibrator penis shape is “too much”, you can try another little inclination sensor. You really do not have any inhibitions   make you happy, harmonious, and is also good for health. 😉

Know your partner is not what you like, so try to talk to him as openly as possible. You really do not need to be afraid of making a fool of you, most men want nothing more than to make the partner happy.

If you do not dare to take this up with a partner, so you can take the soft, indirect way: for his hand where you want to be concerned and let him now caress you. When he makes the proper motions so show that you like it and that he should continue. Then you can tell him that you thought about what he did. In this way, he certainly motivated to strive even more next time. 😉 And girls: there’s no shame if you only come when you darling petting or lick you. Only half of all girls can regularly get a vaginal orgasm.

Often one thinks far too many unnecessary thoughts during intercourse, these makes you distracted and you can not relax, often quite unconsciously: if there are problems zones darling not to see or if you think the guys would think that they female genitals are ugly: all these thoughts do not belong in bed! To put it bluntly: guys think about your genitals and there is nothing to tease them as much as they can see and touch everything – and that’s for sure! And when it comes trouble zones: guys actually looks are not everything we do, and they do it so disturbs them, they love us as we are – with all our feminine curves! 😀

So again a little summary:
The tips do not work directly. So put no pressure on you, but you take enough time. Moreover, it is almost a must for girls to masturbate, so they can find out what they like. You must talk openly with your partner and maybe even caress yourself during intercourse to achieve orgasm with darling.
Good luck and have it now so good! :-)

Sexy lingerie for guys?

Sexiga underkläder för killar - gilla eller dissa?Sexy lingerie for guys like or diss?

When the girls present themselves in sexy lingerie, then pulled the boys’ imagination running properly. But on the contrary, what is it then? Do girls when men show up in sexy underwear etc? And really want men wearing more daring underwear?

We now seem to go away from fine cotton and more and more guys starting to wear a bit rarer underwear. And then backs not even return for materials such as lace. And that’s ok! Just like a pink shirt, even a pair of pants lace emphasize the masculinity of the person who wears them. Eye catching is what happens when man dares to wear underwear with transparent inserts – they show the naked skin.

Or do you like when it’s classic and simple? Therefore, I have the following question to you: What do you think of sexy lingerie for men, for example. with lace, transparent or translucent underwear?……

Playboy gives orgasm tips for women

Symbolfoto - orgasmtips till kvinnanPlayboy magazine in its latest issue, giving readers ten tips to a female orgasm guarantee. This was of course I had to read

It is not just the male penis that can give a woman an orgasm. This is the writer Birgit Querengässers opinion and certainly she is right! When the clitoris massaged, then she ecstasy
– For example, in a mission status. She adds as a pillow under her ass so she gets more stimulation on her clit. Although Woman on top is recommended to get comfortable stimulation on the clitoris, then she can rub it against his pubic bone. At a doggystyle so he can stimulate her clit with his fingers while bumping rhythmically. These three sexual positions and techniques, however, was just the first tip.
On site two, we have a sexual technique which is controlled via a smartphone app. Well, that’s ok, but to sit face to face with a bottle of wine is perhaps slightly better ?!
We come to sex tips number three and now it’s about fingers again – that at the right time inserting her fingers in her ass will be an additional orgasm guarantee. However, you should have talked through this before! So do not get surprised. : -o
Number four is foreplay before foreplay so that you get the right mood. For example, with a shared bath or heating can see on an erotic movie for couples
Are you good with your tongue and you’ll see where it leads … this is sex tips number five.
Number six may first sound a bit dull to 15 minutes to caress the clitoris but something else fumbling. But I say that it is something that you really should try it!
The next tip is probably not for me the girl must stay back! Just before orgasm to be the man to stop encouraging her to increase her horniness. In this way it will be easier to have an orgasm and it will also become more intense. Well, what do you say? One can perhaps try, but it’s not something you need! 😉
– Place Number eight: one should give her a second chance. Of course, what else? But immediately after an orgasm then you should not touch the girl’s direct loss of points, you can they’d rather devote themselves to the other erogenous zones such. As nipples, neck and inner thighs. Then she is still on the sixmood and it will surely be a second round
Tip nine is a tip that I think is very good. It’s about he looks at when she masturbates and then take her hard and solid.
Playboys tenth and final tip is the combination of the finger, tongue and stimulation … It’s Womanizern”!

Sweet temptations …

Sexy candyWhen it comes to candy and sweets so will most people weak and stops avidly itself the sweet sins. It licked, sucked, smaskas and stönas pleasurably. Wait a minute, that sounds almost like sex – and no wonder, I say then, to eat sweets can be incredibly erotic. You men can certainly confirm this, for any guy, no dirty thoughts when a girl eating an ice cream melting in the sun, and when she tries to lick up the last drops. Licking a lollipop cause avsugningsfantasies and really dirty it will be if you take small pieces of candy in penis shape as the brave girls can have that ring on your finger and use at the right moment.

Broadly speaking, one can really transform your entire body into a single, erotic candy department HE and SHE. We have the classic spray cream that slowly melts on the skin, or chocolate sauce, which you can paint arrows on the body to show which path to take. Or let us take the ice cream again, cold ice cream that slowly drains your body is perfect for beautiful temperaturslekar.Kommer you remember the tingling sensation of having effervescent powder on your tongue? With the powder, adults can find completely different uses! : D You can, for example moisturize sensitive body parts with tongue and sprinkle the powder – it tingles on your skin and when you lick it off. Even sweet, sparkling wine with strawberry peach or elderberry flavor that runs on the body and collected in small valleys, tickles beautiful on the body and tunga.Men one must not resort to wine and champagne, even with fresh fruits and berries can be really nasty. Those who prefer to have something to nibble on, there edible underwear. Well this is nothing new and pretty boring,” says sure many of you now, but with a little creativity, you can pep up this classic. The key word is: home made​​! Wood raspberries or small strawberries on a string and make a string or a tiny bikini by the string. The fruits and berries can you smart place right on the nipples or sex. How do you show where you ideally want to be kissed! 😉
Even his “best friend” you can decorate. And girls, there’s a lot of candy that has holes in the middle that can sweeten a blowjob. One could use the monks, vingumminappar, pretzels or a homemade ring of sweet fruits – it’s just your imagination and creativity sets the limits. Now you can first lick on his cock head and sprinkle a sockertopping and now you can get started with sucking. I can almost bet that that kind of blow job becomes much longer and much more intense than usual. 😉 Anyone who does not like it when it sticks so there body powder with a lot of flavors, including caramel and chocolate. Or we limit ourselves to feed each other with cakes and tarts. Then you can lick your fingers and disappear the crumbs into the deeper regions so I just had to look for them. 😉

And a handy tip: honey or syrup‘re certainly good but it sticks like crazy and it gets too sweet. I can also recommend adding a varnish sheets on the bed if you have imagined it to grisas down really well. One might otherwise take it out in the garden or on a lonely, idyllic place in nature. Barbecue enthusiasts can produce ketchup bottle and barbecue sauce and arrange really lovely snuskerier. But beware of harsh ingredients that burn : o

The First Kiss – different springfeelings?

Couple kissing each other The first kiss . An unforgettable experience. But it remains of course not the first .. If not now , of course kissing one man in her life. Has now had several kissing partner one can certainly experience the ” first kiss ” several times – then only with a new one. And is not it exciting when you do not know her or him inside and outside ! 😉 But imagine now that you are going to kiss someone like you at all do not know. You do not even know what his name is …


This was precisely the participants in the following clip with. The clip , which spread like wildfire online, called ” First Kiss ” and is made ​​of Tatia Pllieva . In a short time , the video has been seen incredible 37 million times! And what is this for a video ? Well, 20 people have asked if they can not kiss in front of the camera. Among other things , it was couples with larger age difference and same-sex couples . On some notice that this kind of kissing might be a bit borderline. But as soon as her lips are touching, you will see that the passion takes over – for a small little moments you can almost hear the butterflies in their stomachs. 😀

And why is this video so popular? Hmm, we can only guess . Perhaps it is because there simply is different and that it has never seen anything like it . Maybe it’s because we can not stop smiling . Maybe it’s because the clip evokes blossom of spring . Maybe it’s because it reminds us of our own first kiss and that it might arouse the desire of one to … 😉

A lot of sex for a long life!

Bättre sex tillsammansSex is fun – it’s a thing that is for sure. And that sex prolongs life was a long course, but it just needed to be proven first. This has now scientists from Britain succeeded. They have proven that more sex – especially in men – prolongs life significantly. Men who have sex three times a week on average live full 2 ​​years (! ) Longer than men who just do IT once a week . This rule applies although not at masturbation , without the “real” sexual arousal during lovemaking with at least one partner . 😉

And why do people live longer ? Well, when sexually aroused blood flows in the body faster , the whole body gets a better blood circulation and becomes , as it were ” purged ” . In this way it is prevented that calcium is stored and this in turn reduces the risks of dangerous diseases such as strokes and heart attacks. In addition, also has six another effect : endorphins ( happiness hormones ) are secreted and you simply become happy. :-)

Overall, I can then just say : Sex is healthy. Away then with the bad bortförklaringarna , every day counts. Ideas and Tips for a comprehensive sex life can be found naturally here with us.

Erotic love tips no. 6 – Wet sex à la Hollywood

hollywoodGuys, have you perhaps ever wondered why men like James Dean or James Bond is so popular with women and why women often have erotic fantasies about them? Here is the answer:
They are incredibly relaxed, has a huge male sex appeal and this shows as well! They simply take the they want. These men know what they want, even when it comes to sex and they conquer the women unexpectedly and hot and they take no account of something, such as that might dirty up or if something breaks. Today it’s about letting the passion take over.

Preparation: HE
For your erotic love tips no. 7 Do you need a pair of jeans, a white t-shirt and a shower.

You take on jeans and white t-shirt (it can also work out with a white shirt). Ideally it would be on you this day did nothing to repair, so you get a little dirty and sweaty. Make sure your baby can see you. Would not you have something to repair and you will find certainly something heavy to lift. 😉
After the work is done it gives you a real sweetheart movie kiss and sends her into the shower – she will surely wait with bated breath. After a short time you will enter to her in the shower in the warm water jets – dressed in jeans and t-shirt. You draw her now to you and they wet the games can begin. The warm water soaks slowly into the fabric, it will feel incredibly comfortable on the skin and you will quickly be sure to get off your clothes, even if it might not be so easy at first.

Erotic love tips no. 5 – Sex toys

5Individual gifts are well as something special, and what do you think your partner had said if she got an exact copy of your “best friend”?! Is there a better “replacement” for lonely nights when you may not be there?

Preparation: HE
For the erotic love tip no. 6, so you need a penis wrapping paper, some practice and his erection. 😀

Before making the impression we recommend a smooth shave, also this can be an erotic experience:

Really interesting is this gift if you pack it nicely before giving it away – to make an impression then becomes an erotic, jointly effort. To mix the molding compound, to conjure up an erection, taking the impression, that afterwards to clean and last, but not least, to look forward to the results makes this a pretty sensual adventure. And what you then do with his erection is up to you … 😉
This little sexy love tips can obviously be done with a vaginal and is certainly at least as good. The result can then be stored in his night table :-)

Erotic love tips no. 4 – A soothing foot massage

4Check here, guys! Here is something that you simply must know, women’s feet have thousands of nerves that pass directly at the female pleasure center on their way to the brain.
So close to the small female corpora can be stimulated sexually when your feet moving – slowly but rhythmically. 😉 How you can have this in your foreplay show our love tips no. 5th

If you want to conquer your pet’s heart and feet so you need the following things:

 

1 warm and moist towel
1 dry, fluffy towel
1 bowl with hot water
perfumed soap
massage oil and
1 pack of wine gums pacifiers

The sexy foot care begins only moist and warm. Take your pet’s feet and wash them, lather them gently and then rinse them. After the wrap you in her feet in a warm, moist towel (which you have kept under hot water and turned out well). Now, do you let your feet rest for a short while. Before the towel cools, dries you off her feet with the fluffy towel, each toe dries you separately.
Now it is slowly hot. Take massage oil and start to massage her feet hard on the hands. Not too much – she is supposed to relax properly!
Now you can pull over a wine gum-feeding on each toe (you can of course also take other kind of candy and tuck between the toes). Take your time and rub on. Now you can start nibbling, sucking and licking – but do not forget to rub on.
She will enjoy with your whole body and your nerves will rail at a gallop. You continue now slowly from the feet up to the thigh. And do not forget the flash process! :-) She begins to extend to you and want to know all the fingers on her Venus mountain. Continue as long as you can, begin it then pulsing under your belt, it’s high time …:-D

Mmmhh, a foot massage can be sooo much nice! 😀