10 interesting facts about masturbation
That masturbation does not make you blind should probably be clear to all. On the contrary - masturbation should, according to many doctors, be in every medicine cabinet. But even beyond that, there are a lot of surprising, fun and useful facts about the subject of “self-love” that we naturally want to share with us. We have put together a few points that will give you pleasure for a real masturbation-Olympics. Now, if you pulling a Tarzan shaking rooster or polish the pearl - you are not alone.
Masturbation is the first wellness for body and soul. Put your intimate region of a short-term stress and afterwards you can enjoy the short and long term benefits of this climax: stress reduction, strengthening the pelvic floor muscles, release of feelings of happiness and enhanced coronary artery.
Second, did you know that in the month of May celebrates the international masturbation month in the United States? Well, Americans who considered so adorn ?! Since 1995, rubbed, pulled and rubbed it so it is lovely to - this honor Joycelyn Elders, a military doctor who was fired by then-President Bill Clinton that she had spoken publicly about masturbation. Hmm, and there shall be freedom of speech?
3 But it may be too much of a good thing? Aside from the fact that it might someday become a ‘wear and tear of the material “, so it can never be too much self-love. As long as you manage to get you to work on time, then there is no reason why the ora. This confirmed until the American Psychiatric Association.
4 And we also have a good news for all the girls who suffer from menstrual cramps: discard painkillers, masturbation is the most effective and natural means to resolve with cramps. Once a month, then masturbation is not only beautiful, but also painkillers. Well, if pharmaceutical groups knew about this …
5 But for all the enthusiasm it might be interesting to take us back to masturbation dark history. In 1716 it circulated a booklet in London who undertook details. This booklet was listed as all horrifying consequences up - including that it got hairy hands. The booklet was translated into various languages and 60 editions saw that many hands were on the quilt a long time. And even worse: In Connecticut masturbation punished by death in the 1600s.
6 A good news for all those who still feel guilty when they indulge themselves: almost everyone does it. A survey from 2010 shows that 94% of men and 85% of women are happy to spend time with themselves. The other 21% are probably those who complain about the baby cry or tease up at all because of trifles. … or you‘re lying simply.
7 And now it gets really interesting: people who have sex regularly, masturbate more often than people without a lively sex life. Even their marriages last longer and are happier. When you read something like that so you sacrifice willingly for a good cause!
8 Although the first people obviously knew what it was about, a clay figure from a temple in Malta shows a person in a clear-masturbation stance - and this was 4000 years before Christ! What does that tell us? People could thus far freely rub and rub before they began to destroy us.
9 Pro-masturbation-argument, there is a whole lot and you can not get enough of them. Here is part 2 with the health argument: masturbation reduces the risk of diabetes, prostate cancer, depression, sleep disturbances and cervical infections. Good, right? The time you spend at the doctor one can rather spend at home in bed.
10 He who believes that masturbation is an invention of man has never been in the zoo’s monkey house. But it is not just the monkeys who like to fiddle with themselves, even deer, squirrels and walruses know how to make it good for himself. Scientists have even observed that female monkeys using sticks in a very creative, erotic way - humans have needed decades to invent dildo.
But let’s be honest now: we really do well no reason to do it and to enjoy ourselves. And we all know that everybody wants that something must be done right, so you simply do it yourself!
Should we do it without rubber? No!
So it should be clear answer to the question that is often accompanied by many “good reason” but that does not at all reduce the risk of becoming infected with sexually transmitted diseases. To fuck without a condom is and remains a major risk that could have bitter consequences. The worst excuses I have here summed up in a top 5 list:
First I’m allergic to condoms!
Aha, against all ?! No, no dear guys. We may think about the occasional suffer from a latex allergy, but not all. And even if all of a sudden would develop such an allergy, there are always alternatives. In our condom assortment for example there are an additional section with only non-latex condoms. This first poor excuse can you then this instant stop.
Second, it feels better without a condom!
Nonsense! There is also evidence to the contrary. Researchers say that girls can relax better because they do not need to worry - neither for an unwanted pregnancy or to become infected with various of diseases. This should have helped one and another woman to have an orgasm, an orgasm that she might not be received by an unprotected intercourse. Another distinct advantage is the condom humidity that makes penetration easier. Condoms with nubs and grooves also give the girl a further stimulation at the protected intercourse.
And the guys then? :) Yes, although they have sexual benefits of condoms! Quite often helps the condom when it comes to pulling out on the orgasm and prevent premature ejaculation. There are even endurance condoms, with integrate cock ring.
“They’re always so dry“. Nope! There are condoms with extra lubricant layer. “They are so thick that you do not know anything!” We believe this also no on, there are sensitive condoms for extra sensation.
3 I have no STDs!
Yes, now it is not so everyone walks around with a sexual health certificate. The problem is that many men and even women assume that everything is ok “down there” because it looks so. But many diseases of the genital area you can not see from the outside and they also have no significant symptoms. A chlamydia infection, for example, one can have undetected in the body for a long time and it can do that it is hard to conceive later.
4th I‘m so horny that I can not wait anymore!
Well, an erect penis is quite clearly one of the best compliments that a woman can get. But so easy you should not be to wrap around your little finger. Obviously it’s not easy to say no to a large and stiff penis, but no matter how tempting the offer is, your erection will come back! Then the condom on and you can drive on without experiencing remorse afterward. End of discussion!
5th You do not trust me then?
Aha! A manipulation attempts! A clear sign that the man has learned from us. But he will certainly not be praised for this! To drive this emotional thing is probably almost the worst of all the bad excuses. Especially when it comes to avoiding a pregnancy. No, thank you! For we all know that even the first few drops of semen can transform into children. The appropriate response: a condom is no negotiating and real men do not meander. So, now it’s over with silly excuses. The condom should be the most important sexaccessorize and belongs to the basic equipment in the nightstand of every responsible adult!
This particular method is used during sexual intercourse to prevent the guy comes too early. In this way, the Act extended considerably. However, the method requires the squeeze some patience. What is this for a method? Well, ejaculation reflex disturbed by a soft pressing and ejaculation prevented respectively. delayed.
Step 1: To make it as easy for you as possible so should the guy lying on your back and spread your legs. The partner kneels with her legs spread over one of his thighs, or kneels next to him so that she successfully reaches his penis and so she can see him. Now she begins to caress and massage the limb (preferably with a little lube) so that it becomes erect. The guy should relax as much as possible and enjoy the massage penis until he almost comes. When he feels that “it’s on the way” so he gives her a agree upon mark and now use the squeeze method. She then pinches together his penis in 4-6 seconds. She puts her thumb on the bottom of the glans, and two additional fingers (ring and the middle finger) above and below where the glans is separated from the shaft of the penis. The index finger is placed on the glans of the page. If the pressure becomes too strong or painful, you can obviously shorten the time [it is always better if it's soft and not too hard! - We do not want his best friend gets hurt!] So that the effect can still be achieved, you have to then push a little further, about 8-15 seconds. The penis becomes slack again and the erection disappears but the guy ejaculates. These “dry exercises” can be repeated as often as both have the desire. One should at least have tried it three to four times to go ahead with step 2.
At step 2, you start as in the previous exercise. The small but significant difference is that after the use of the squeeze method turns to him and insert the floppy limb in her vagina. The guy is still passive on the back and then begins to slowly move up and down. The penis will thus become erect again. Shortly before he comes so pulled the penis out again and she prevents him from going with his hands.
Although this exercise should be repeated several times. When using the “sit” and everything is working as it should so the girl should get a feeling when it’s time to use the squeeze method, and repeat it without his character.
First time you should test the method in the specified position, but since then you can of course also try other positions. However, it is important that the girl respectively. the active partner takes over the press making. In the longer term, so you should probably notice that the guy does not come too soon - unless it’s just to practice on.
As I’ve mentioned so requires the squeeze method, some practice and patience. But do not give up! I wish you anyway great success!
FINALLY! Now a part of EL James written words from BDSM bestseller in image and tone - it is the first foretaste of the film in a 131 seconds long trailer. “Wow”, I say! : D
Slowly so give the creators of “Fifty Shades of Grey” movie on promotional tour. On Friday, it was shown for the first time. The first trailer for the Dakota Johnson and Jamie Dornan how those Anastasia Steele and Christian Grey hit the first time. And a lot of computers, smartphones and tablets are red-hot …
Though it tarry, first on Valentine’s Day 2015 film shown at cinemas around the country. But fuck it! He who waits for something good … Here is the now - the first official trailer for “Fifty Shades of Grey“:
Now it’s time again, it‘s almost weekend and it is full speed on the roads. Solar cars everywhere … It is true that then comes on a little strange ideas: count the number of red cars, guess branding or playing AZ or how it would be to press in the entire travel the supplies?
But would not it be fun to utilize the time to move a little more? For example, having sex in the car or at a picnic site? But what is the best position? Here are a few tips for the position of the car.
But beware! Always remember to set the parking brake firmly and in gear, otherwise it could be really embarrassing! And you will be discovered can get it all to an abrupt end and you even risk being reported to the police because of unruly behavior. But on the other hand, it is not just what is high?!?
Sometimes it tingles just a little and we think, “Oh,was that all ?!” and some times we just want to shout out, “Hallelujah!” - The orgasm, the beautiful ending to intercourse!
But how can we really be sure that there will be more “Hallelujah” than “Oh, was that all ?!”?
Here I have put together a couple of sexual techniques for him and her:
What she can do for him: Girls, you can massage his ass cheeks rhythmically and so to say pull them apart, by the stimulating feelings of the anus as his orgasm can be much more intense. During oral sex, but also during intercourse may scrotum caressed, massaged or pulled easily, perhaps even using nails. That it is you who is in charge of “balls” makes sure that he gets twice as horny!
What he can do for her: What sexual techniques can man use to get the woman in ecstasy?
Tried and tested agents could be cunnilingus or / and to find the G-spot (a long and nice foreplay with caressing should of course not be forgotten). If he knows where her G-spot is, then he has only really find out if this item is better to stimulate with the fingers or perhaps rather with the help of a vibrator just for this purpose.
What she can do for herself: The girl can also do something for herself! Tensing your muscles may also enhance orgasm. Squeeze the buttock muscles and / or thighs just before orgasm or, if the position allows, lifting the feet. Breathing high reinforces the whole further and make your partner even more excited.
What he can do for himself: Last but not least, I do wonder what the guy can do to get in ecstasy? Sure, he can fix it himself and masturbate, but he can also try something new and let you take over power. Let yourselves be tied, guys - the girls will certainly at one or the other as she would like to try on you! Yes that’s right, and a little orgasm training probably can not hurt .
And another little sex tips - have you ever tried to keep his ears just before he comes? By spontaneously turn off this mind, he will certainly concentrate more on the actual orgasm!
Do you have more good orgasm tips on stock? We look forward to hearing about them!
When that girl has sex drive and there is no guy around so you can arrange it yourself. One or another ask themselves safely - how? Well, there are a lot of masturbation postures and finger techniques that girl just have to try on!
If we start with the racks. Basic Situation: You put you on the back and caress you where it’s nice. For example, start with the breasts, caressing the areola to the nipple that is now massaged. Then wander hand slowly down to blygden and pamper your clit with circular movements.
You notice pretty quickly see where that gets you in ecstasy. If that is not enough, you can take one or two fingers and sliding them into the vagina. We are all different. Clit, clitoris, vagina, and both … try simply!
Of course you can vary your position - put a pillow under your butt or add your page as in the spoon position. Or do you do that when you are squatting when you sit or stand. The main thing it’s convenient and you will reach it you should.
So, now that you have decided on what position you prefer, we will now turn to the different finger techniques …
In an indirect massage, you take your index and middle finger and takes her clit between them. Take a good grip on her clit and now you can start with the massage. You can touch you, and your fingers as you want, increase the pressure and even pull her clit a little upwards. For all of you who like multitasking, I have a multi-grip. But beware, this technique can lead to a passionate, but quick orgasm. How many fingers you choose to use, you decide - thumb, fingers, or both? The vagina and the clitoris is stimulated incredibly through the massage and the introduction of the fingers. You‘ll quickly discover what you like.
Dyktekniken: A technique with one, two, five or more fingers. Insert your fingers into the vagina and let them disappear rhythmically in and out of the vagina. Vary the pace from slow to fast. Shortly before the orgasm comes on you, I recommend keeping your fingers inside for a brief moment and then pull them out.
One to finger tip - lip grip. This technique involves you holding the labia apart with your index and little ginger and rub her clit with the middle and ring finger. If you need more pressure, so you can take your other hand to help.
Those who have the desire to stimulate herself with the aforementioned finger techniques and / or shower handle so I recommend the following SPA therapy.
SPA treatment in the bathtub: Before filling up the tub with water, put you in the tub first and let the water jets hit your body. The beam can now massaging your breasts, stomach and intimate zones. Stay down and enjoy it. When the tub is now filled with water, you take the shower handle and place it between your thighs so that the beam reaches the clitoris and vagina, mmmmhhh ….
Of course, such a shower-massage possible even under the shower while sitting, standing squatting or standing up: adjust the water jet power as you need it. Keep the shower handle in front of the vagina and driving on the free hand.
Have it now so nice and always think of that when it comes to masturbation so desperately need no self-control!
Working out makes you well mostly to stay in shape, to strengthen the body and to get fitter. And sooner or later you start to sweat. It’s also what‘s the point. But now do not like to walk around in sweaty clothes should find a new thing - how would it be to train without clothes? Nude Sport must not just be something for all naturists among us. : D
For anyone interested, I now have a small overview of sports that one - more or less good - can exercise naked:
Whoever thought this relaxing sport was just a short trend, it was so wrong so! For some, Yoga is an incredibly important part of the day. The quiet movements Peppas up even more if they practiced naked - and it looks the incredibly good! At naked yoga stimulates all the senses! How this could be like showing you the video with the sexy model Luba Shumeyko. She allowed themselves to be photographed by her husband, erotic photographer Petter Hegre.
It takes two scantily clad girls or guys, a lacquer sheets or an inflatable paddling pool, a little mud or oil and get going! Now it’s not important really muscular power, it is rather an easy kivande and it is not only interesting for the spectators. This wrestling version is called logically enough erotic-wrestling.
To kick the ball without clothes can be really fun. The girl let their own balls swing, just as mother nature has created her (or uncle doctor;-)). And for the gentlemen that is certainly a special charm to run a free kick naked, right? You can certainly find a remote place for naked football otherwise so test it on the nude beach.
Something that is not that difficult and can be practiced along with many naked hike. Even with a group hiking is possible so that “God created us.” Anyone who likes more tempo should attempt the nude running or jogging naked - as in the video below.
Winter sports - luge / snowboarding / skiing:
Nude in the snow? Can it really be a good idea? Jajemen! In Germany there is an “Internationally nude luge” which is incredible popular. But yes, it is good to also ski and snowboard when you are naked. Look here!
Nude Skating suited warmer days when you can take the opportunity to get a cool breeze from the wind. Even if you are completely naked, then you should not forget the knee pads …
Nude surfing, naked cyclists, nude golfing, riding naked. Is darts and chess also a sport anyway? This list of different sports can be infinitely long, all that one can do with clothes, one can also do without. The only thing that might be a little difficult is to find the right environment to their naked activities! Fortunately, there is the mattress gymnastics!
In the porn world - or to take it more generally - in the erotic world there are many “technical terms” that an amateur does not know what they mean, or let those heeelt something else. So you‘ll have a little more idea to come so I have here a small list of words or abbreviations that you may encounter during sex. Remember these so you can impress a little extra next time you talk about sex with your partner or with friends.
Altporn: It sounds like sex with older people? Wrong! Altporn is a concept of “Alternative Porno“. It can be an actor with disheveled braids, wild tattoos and a lot of piercings that reflect alternative people in subcultures and thus exudes a different lifestyle. More synonyms Altporn is: “Alternaporn” or simply the “alt”. “Indiporn” can also be a term for this kind of genre.
Anilingus: As you can almost hear so is the word composed of “anal” and “lingus”. It means type “heavy anal“. The area around the anus is caressed with his tongue and mouth and tongue can also disappear into. In everyday speech, it’s “rimming” and “rhyme”. Here you can read more about this sexpraktik.
Booty Call: This describes when you call and want an erotic date. The English word “Booty” even has two meanings that fits incredibly well, namely “byte” and “rump.”
Bubblegum: Well, and what can this be? What can chewing gum have to do with porn and erotica? Yes, now you have the us and now you will learn that it is NOT all about a movie with chewing gum but a rosy vagina. The concept of man nowadays uses when a photographer takes a detailed picture of the female organ is called Pink Shot.
Porn industry slang means simply - sperm. Cumshot describes cumshots.
Digitatio: Sounds complicated, but it is not! Fiddle and fumble, we can well everybody, right? Digitatio translated means “finger“, and describes how the fingers are used during foreplay. Without digitatio so it would have been very boring, what do you say?
Feminist Porn: This is about pornographic movies made by girls for girls and couples - aesthetic and with action. A top 5 list matching to this topic can be found here!
Fisting: A concept that has become widely known in recent years. For all of you who do not yet know what it is going now a little explanation: “Fist” is the English word for fist entering full or partial anally or vaginally. Anal may fistas in men and women.
Gangbang: It should probably most people know what it is - but anyway … a gang bang is a sex orgy where men are in the majority. A girl thus has sex with different people and engaged in several guys at once.
Girl and girl: That would explain almost itself - it’s porn films with two or more girls.
Gonzo: In a Gonzo film‘s director, respectively. cameraman with what’s happening. What can the audience see and he gives directions, is on dialogues and may even be on the sexual activities. This kind of filming is often used when it comes to movies that do not have any special action. This style should be porn actress and porn director John Stagliano have invented. And now that we’re at the time - would you come across the term POV (Point of view) so it means a different kind of Gonzo. Here, actress a camera body and one can see from the man’s point of view how he fucks the girl. It sort of feels as if one is in the middle of everything.
Hardcore: This is a concept that most people have heard before. But what does it really mean? “Hard” means “hard” and “Core” means “center” or “inner”. When you then see a movie as it is hardcore as it is clear that it sees the hard core or hard interior. There are detailed photos and scenes where it goes wild for … and they get going right away. With very precise and unmistakable physical details …
Met-Art: This is an abbreviation of “most erotic teen art” and describes the photo and / or video art with young models who have reached the legal minimum age for such activities.
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